人际暴力计划

成为积极旁观者的步骤:

1. 注意情况: 注意你周围的环境
2. 把它理解为一个问题: 认识到有人需要帮助
3. 感到有责任采取行动: See yourself as being a part of the solution

There are different ways you can choose to intervene.

旁观者干预的5d

1. 直接. Approach the person causing harm, name the inappropriate behavior.
2. 分散. Create a diversion to interrupt harm and/or give the target an opportunity to remove 自己.
3. 委托. 向别人寻求帮助.
4. 文档. Create a record of the incident or situation.
5. 延迟. Circle back late if you didn’t intervene in the moment.

A pattern of physically, sexually, verbally, and/or emotionally abusive or controlling 约会关系中的行为.

约会/Domestic violence is more than a bruised face or broken arm. 它包括:

• 身体虐待 -Any unwanted contact with the other person’s body. 身体虐待没有 留下印记或瘀伤.
• 性虐待 -Any sexual behavior that is unwanted or interferes with the other person’s right 对性侵犯说“不”.
• 情感虐待 -Saying or doing something to the other person that causes the person to be afraid 和/或自尊心较低.

How To Support Those Experiencing 约会/家庭暴力

1. 选择一个合适的时间和地点来交谈.
2. Ask questions and listen without judgement.
3. 强调你的关心.
4. Let them know that the violence is not their fault.
5. Let them know that NO abuse is ever acceptable.
6. 让他们知道可以得到帮助.
7. Leave the door open for future conversations.

1. 传授安全和健康的人际关系
2. Disrupt the developmental pathways toward partner violence
3. 幼儿训练
4. Create protective environments that do not tolerate partner violence.
5. Empower bystanders to help others who are in abusive situations, and provide them 有资源和指导.
6. Watch out for the red flags of partner violence.
7. Bring awareness to the plight of partner violence.

红旗

• 极端的嫉妒
• Preventing you from making your own decisions
• Constant put downs and verbal threats in person, online, via email or text message
• 昏睡的:睡着或失去知觉的
• Incapacitation due to excessive use of alcohol or drugs
• Persistent phone calls or text despite being told not to make contact in any form
• Threats to family, friends, property or pets of the victim
• Waiting for the victim at workplace, in the neighborhood/residence hall, after class, and where the stalker knows the victim goes

施虐者: A person who physically, sexually, verbally, or emotional hurts or attempts to control 亲密的伴侣.

目标: A person who is subjected to controlling behavior or hurt physically, sexually, verbally, 或者在情感上受到亲密伴侣的影响.

旁观者: A person who is aware or suspects that someone is being abused in a dating relationship. The bystander may become aware of the abuse through the abuser’s or the target’s actions 或单词.

Any involuntary sexual act in which a person is forced to engage in against her/his 将. 

Signs A College-Age Student May Have Been Sexually Assaulted

• 表现出抑郁的迹象
• 表现出自残行为
• 低自尊
• 避免特定的情况或地点
• Falling grades or withdrawing from classes
• 吸毒或酗酒的增加
• Anxiety or worry about situations that did not seem to cause anxiety in the past.
• 性传播感染

Engaging in a course of conduct directed at a specific person that would cause a reasonable person to fear for their safety or suffer substantial emotional distress.

• Between 6% to 39% of college 学生 report being stalked since entering college.
• 40% of college 学生 responded to a poll saying they had engaged in at least one type of stalking after the end of a relationship.
• 18 to 24-year-olds experience the highest rates of stalking among adults.
• 学生 at a higher risk of experiencing staking include women, 学生 of color, LGBTQIA+ 学生, 学生 with disabilities, 学生 living off campus, and younger 学生.
• Up to 80% of people stalked on college campus may know who their stalker is.